January 12, 2026
Day 6
Well I’m definitely not doing very well on posting daily but I’m not giving up yet. Man habits can be hard to form sometimes.
I was talking with someone the other day and they said something that really stuck with me. They were talking about how they were trying to connect more with people through conversation and how hard it is to create a genuine conversation when you know so little about this person. They said I’m a very selfish person.
I definitely don’t think this person is selfish, I’ve seen them often give their time and money to others freely. But they were explaining how selfish they were because their thoughts were so often on themselves, what do they need to get done, what would they like to do tomorrow, what were they needing to get done at work, etc. This was partly what they believed made it difficult to have genuine conversations with others.
I’ve always been an introvert, but this really hit me because I realized I’m exactly the same way. My thoughts are almost solely about myself and my interests. If I were to spend more time thinking of others I truly think I would be more eager to reach out to others and it wouldn’t be something that made me uncomfortable or something I try to avoid. Anyhow. Thank you individual for your simple words of wisdom.
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